Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Date/ Crush Update
Hello dear readers! Thanks for bearing with me as I ignored you for so so long. Anyhow, a short update on how the date went: it didn't! Turns out I've crushed on a very complicated creature, who just got out of a bad relationship. I'll keep you kittens updated as things progress, but for now, we'll continue talking on Monday nights, and I'll continue to crush on him. But, when it comes down to it, I can't project my wants and desires onto someone else, because that's not fair. That would take away all his agency in the situation and make him into an object. And that's not how we do things, or want to do things, over here in hotchowlandia.